I found that a lot of young couple nowadays end their relationship because of a little argument. It could easily turn ugly if that small argument are not settled right away. So as I came across this article by Mutia Nugraheni, I thought I will share it. Hope it's useful.
Argument is relatively normal within any couple. The important thing is that how you could go through the process and come back to the relationship.
So, here is the 22 sentences that could calm a fight / argument:
- Try to understand my position
- Hold on, can I take it back?
- You don' have to finish it. I just need to talk to you
- This is very important for me, please listen to me
- I'm sorry, I've overacted
- I see, you're in a difficult position
- I can see my share in this
- I've never thought about it before
- I could be wrong
- we could agree and not agree on it
- This is not your problem, it's ours
- I felt disrespected
- We're out from the main problem
- You convinced me
- Please, continue to talk to me
- I realized this isn't your fault
- Thing just seems wrong sometimes
- Actually, what are we fighting for?
- How can I make things better?
- I'm sorry
- I love you
~ Don't let your love be replaced by hatred caused by misunderstanding ~
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